the army

my fiance decided to tell me last night that he was gonna sign up for the army but of course i was totally against it and started to cry. well then he started ti talk about all the positve outcomes in joining the arny and my response to him was that there is way more negative effects than there is positive, so tonight he called and told me that he wasnt going to enlist but he was thinking about army reserves and that im ok with because he would only have to go one weekend a month so i gave him the ok for that